Your GF has a reason right now in her head for breaking up with you. Whether that reason is what she says it is is not the issue. She wants space. You don’t.

The problem is that she wants it. You’re going to have to give it to her.

Now before you say you have to have her back right now do a couple of things.

1. Take a break yourself. This will get you emotionally stable. Sounds wussy but believe me you are not going to be able to function when you do talk to her with all that emotional haze in your head.

2. Start to think of the ‘real’ reasons you want the relationship to continue. This is for you not her.

When you have done this you will have given her a few days space to miss YOU! She needs to realize that HER relationship with you is worth it too. Then she will be ready to approach.

Find a non-relationship reason to talk to her and let her see why you were worth it the first time around.

Then you’ll be ready to fight for her….with a lot less resistance. Give both of you some space and you’ll know when it’s time to start fighting for her again.

I hope this helps, Josh.